I am extremely happy with Dr. Datema's service. I hope to keep my sessions with Dr Datema in the future and based on my experience so far, i recommend Dr. Datema to anyone who is seeking help. I wish everyone seeking help for themselves or their loved ones the best and hope you get the best help you deserve.
Dr. Ralph Datema, LMFT
Experienced mental health professional
Provides online counseling through BetterHelp
At a glance
Ralph is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.
- 4.5 stars
- Clients are very satisfied with Ralph. View 8 reviews
- Great news, Ralph is accepting new clients!
- He is normally fully-booked.
- Speaks English
- Offers Telehealth visits
- Licensed in Colorado
Recent reviews
Dr Datema is amazing. He taught us so much, and it totally changed our marriage. Highly recommend!
More about Ralph
- 45 years' experience
- Male
- LMFT
I am a family and marriage therapist licensed in Colorado with over 40 years of experience working as Marriage and Family Therapist, mental health therapist and pastoral psychotherapist. I have worked with clients presenting a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting challenges, challenges of faith, and various levels of trauma.
My therapy style is supportive, invites personal reflection, focuses on relation to self, life, and others. I will work with individuals, couples, and families. I also work well with aging process issues -- especially senior couples and individuals. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, psychodynamic and rational therapy. The foundation of my therapeutic approach is systemic based therapy which empowers separating self from the multitude of external historical influences that surround us. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs.
It takes courage to seek a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards change. If you are ready to take that step, I am here to support and empower you.
I look forward to working with you!
Specialties
Relationship issues
Family conflicts
Grief
Intimacy-related issues
Self esteem
Stress
Anxiety
Addictions
LGBT
Trauma and abuse
Eating disorders
Sleeping disorders
Parenting issues
Anger management
Career difficulties
Bipolar disorder
Depression
Coping with life changes
Coaching
Compassion fatigue
ADHD
Multicultural concerns
Personality disorders
Prejudice and discrimination
Treatment Approaches
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
Licenses
Dr. Ralph Datema's National Provider Identifier (NPI) is 1073729828.
- LMFT · Colorado · MFT.0000105 · Expires August 2025
About online counseling
- Affordable.
- Pay a low flat fee.
- Convenient.
- Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
- Available now.
- There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.
Online counseling allows you to receive care from a mental health practitioner via phone, video chat, or instant messaging. It is convenient for those who may have trouble getting to or would prefer not to have in-person therapy appointments. Starting at $65 per week, online counseling is generally more affordable than in-person counseling. A study by researchers at University of California, Berkeley found that online counseling can be just as effective as face-to-face therapy while being more convenient, affordable, and accessible.
Reviews for Dr. Ralph Datema
All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.
Overall rating:
I am extremely happy with Dr. Datema's service. I hope to keep my sessions with Dr Datema in the future and based on my experience so far, i recommend Dr. Datema to anyone who is seeking help. I wish everyone seeking help for themselves or their loved ones the best and hope you get the best help you deserve.
Dr Datema is amazing. He taught us so much, and it totally changed our marriage. Highly recommend!
I am so grateful for my therapist and I wish I could have met him sooner. He has helped me grow tremendously over the past 11 months. I’m looking forward to the growth and healing in the next year.
Big fan of Dr. Datema
Dr. D has helped me tremendously in the last six months. I look forward to meeting with him each week because I know I’m going to learn and understand something that is going to help me get through things I’m going through. I am getting better and to be working with him.
Dr. Datema has been absolutely excellent. He has helped me become more actualized and is helping me to build strategies to deal with depression and anxiety. What I love most is the scientific approach to understanding the mind and how these thoughts arise. I have an extremely erratic schedule in the Music Industry & Dr. Datema is always patient with accommodating my schedule & fitting me in days when things unexpectedly arise. Im am grateful for our continued work.
Dr Datema has been wonderful to work with and has really held me accountable to self improvement
Professional and helpful
Frequently asked questions
Does Dr. Ralph Datema offer telehealth visits?
Yes. Dr. Ralph Datema works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.
What language(s) does Dr. Ralph Datema speak?
Dr. Ralph Datema speaks English.
How many years of experience does Dr. Ralph Datema have?
Dr. Ralph Datema has 45 years of experience.
Where is Dr. Ralph Datema licensed to practice?
Dr. Ralph Datema is licensed to practice in Colorado.
Does Dr. Ralph Datema accept clients outside of the United States?
No, Dr. Ralph Datema does not accept clients outside of the United States.
Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?
Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."
What treatment approaches does Dr. Ralph Datema offer?
Dr. Ralph Datema offers clients Client-Centered Therapy, Existential Therapy, Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems.
How can I communicate with Dr. Ralph Datema?
Dr. Ralph Datema can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.
How do I get started with Dr. Ralph Datema?
Just tap the CHAT NOW button or tap here: A new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.
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When you tap CHAT NOW a new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.