Lila is really helpful and very caring. Over the time we have spent together she has taught me valuable tools for coping and been very understanding. I would highly recommend her. Thank you Lila
Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic, BACP
Experienced mental health professional
Provides online counseling through BetterHelp
At a glance
Ljiljana is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.
- 5.0 stars
- Clients are very satisfied with Ljiljana. View 6 reviews
- Speaks English
- Offers Telehealth visits
- Licensed in United Kingdom
- Accepts worldwide clients
Recent reviews
Lovely women, carefully listens and very compassionate.
More about Ljiljana
- 16 years' experience
- Female
- BACP
Hello,
I'm Lila (MA, MBACP, MUKCP), a registered psychotherapist and counsellor based in London, UK, with over 16 years of professional experience of working within The NHS, mental health charities, specialist Eating Disorders clinic and in private practice.
My approach is integrative, relational and tailored to client's needs. It is informed by psychodynamic and attachment theories and contemporary understanding of trauma and relationships, and it draws from my training in integrative, psychodynamic and CBT psychotherapy approaches. I have also trained extensively in working with eating disorders and obesity.
I am experienced in helping clients with stress and anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, trauma, disordered eating, body image issues, self esteem, confidence, and loss and bereavement, among other issues.
In my work with clients, it's important to me to create an open and safe therapeutic relationship where thoughts and feelings can be shared and explored without fear of judgment. My aim is to explore the roots of your difficulties, as well as give you some tools to manage those difficulties better and empower you to make the changes that you want.
Taking that first step towards a more fulfilling and happier life is not easy and it takes courage. I am here to support you on that journey.
Specialties
Stress
Anxiety
Relationship issues
Eating disorders
Self esteem
Depression
Addictions
LGBT
Family conflicts
Trauma and abuse
Grief
Intimacy-related issues
Sleeping disorders
Parenting issues
Anger management
Career difficulties
Coping with life changes
Abandonment
Attachment issues
Body image
Chronic pain, illness, and disability
Codependency
Communication problems
Control issues
Dependent personality
Divorce and separation
Eating and food-related issues
Emptiness
Family of origin issues
Family problems
Forgiveness
Guilt and shame
HIV / AIDS
Immigration issues
Infidelity
Isolation / loneliness
Jealousy
Life purpose
Midlife crisis
Money and financial issues
Mood disorders
Multicultural concerns
Narcissism
Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
Personality disorders
Phobias
Prejudice and discrimination
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Self-love
Social anxiety and phobia
Somatization
Women's issues
Workplace issues
Treatment Approaches
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
Licenses
- BACP · United Kingdom · 60133 · Expires September 2025
About online counseling
- Affordable.
- Pay a low flat fee.
- Convenient.
- Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
- Available now.
- There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.
Online counseling allows you to receive care from a mental health practitioner via phone, video chat, or instant messaging. It is convenient for those who may have trouble getting to or would prefer not to have in-person therapy appointments. Starting at $65 per week, online counseling is generally more affordable than in-person counseling. A study by researchers at University of California, Berkeley found that online counseling can be just as effective as face-to-face therapy while being more convenient, affordable, and accessible.
Reviews for Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic
All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.
Overall rating:
Lila is really helpful and very caring. Over the time we have spent together she has taught me valuable tools for coping and been very understanding. I would highly recommend her. Thank you Lila
Lovely women, carefully listens and very compassionate.
Lila is compassionate, empathetic and engaging. Strikes the perfect balance between listening and posing questions, a overall great therapist! I would always recommend her.
Really lovely and considerate of other’s feelings
Professional, easy to open up to.
Lila is a professional that is attentive to all the details and expert in communication. Definitely recommend to anybody seeking help!
Frequently asked questions
Does Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic offer telehealth visits?
Yes. Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.
What language(s) does Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic speak?
Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic speaks English.
How many years of experience does Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic have?
Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic has 16 years of experience.
Where is Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic licensed to practice?
Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic is licensed to practice in the United Kingdom.
Does Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic accept clients outside of the United Kingdom?
Yes, Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic accepts clients outside of the United Kingdom.
Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?
Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."
What treatment approaches does Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic offer?
Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic offers clients Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy.
How can I communicate with Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic?
Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.
How do I get started with Ljiljana (Lila) Despotovic?
Just tap the CHAT NOW button or tap here: A new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.
Mental health conditions are real, common, and treatable.
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When you tap CHAT NOW a new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.